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The Importance of Taking Time Out









Life sometimes feels like a perennial treadmill, stuck on 13.5 speed with an incline of 6. Slow your pace down for a second and you wont be able to keep up, you'll fall off (much to the amusement of everyone else and the fit PT in the gym,) feel pretty shitty then struggle to get back on it. And by then, of course, everyone else is way further ahead than you are and you're going to have to go so much faster to even try and keep up. Yes, we're all stuck on the never ending rollercoaster we call life, but what if we don't want to take Ronan Keating's advice? What if we don't actually want to ride that rollercoaster? And instead we'd rather hop off, take a breather and eat a taco? I think it's high time we stop taking the words of early 00s pop songs so seriously and just chill the fuck out.

The problem with going a billion miles per hour? You lose sight and things start to lack clarity. So whilst you think you're doing incredibly well by constantly working and pushing towards your goals, you're actually holding yourself back because you can't perform at 100% one hundred percent of the time. Let's face it, you're not Beyonce (sorry to break it to you - and me.) I work every single day in some way; Monday-Friday 9-5, and then at weekends on my blog. Sometimes it feels relentless, but hitting publish on my posts feels like an accomplishment. But when I'm working so hard, the cracks begin to show. Typos crop up in my work like little pesky weeds and even my Mum texts me telling me to slow down the pace a little because I'm clearly not giving something my full attention. I can't sleep properly because no matter how tired I am, my brain is in overdrive thinking, thinking, thinking, planning.

We wear our busyness like a badge of honour, engulfed in a I can sleep when I'm dead attitude, bragging on social about our diaries being filled up with meetings, appointments, dinners, coffees, brunches. Because busy = successful and important, no? Well, no, not always. It's more like being a hamster going round and round in a little wheel thinking "dude dude, am I actually getting anywhere?"

I'm not going to go all zen on you and tell you to start meditating or something - although it is meant to be beneficial - but what I will say is don't be afraid to step off the wheel and let go a little bit. Go for coffee (without pausing to Instagram it) head out of the city for a walk, take a digital detox, bingewatch Sex and the City, simply spend some time solo, and most importantly, screw Ronan Keating and get off that rollercoaster. I always preferred Westlife anyway...

Photography by Rebecca Spencer


7 comments

  1. True words... I agree 100% that being busy all the time and "I'll sleep when I'm dead" attitude is more of a hamster running around in circle while the life is passing him by... Once we're old we will not want to remember the social medias and crazy busy schedules, we'll remember the moments we've spent with special people, places we've traveled to, etc.

    You look gorgeous in this casual outfit and I'm loving your bag!

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  2. Great advice and I'm feeling totally the same at the minute and feel it really shows up in my skin when I'm working over drive <3 I just recently got more hours at work and blogging between this can be hard at times but I love it and wouldn't want it to lack <3

    Jenny | Krystel Couture

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  3. This was such a good post! I think we all need to have time to relax and just forget about our problems, even if it's for only a night! :)

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  4. I absolutely love your writing style. This one's a pretty serious topic but I was somehow cracking up not because I'm making fun of you, but the way you write just makes me laugh and smile! Everyone definitely needs a time off every once in a while. I don't get people who are too hard on themselves throughout their school and work career.

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  5. Beautiful hair and love thes last photo :)
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    Maria V.

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  6. Girl, you're totally rocking this red lipstick! And i totally agree - we should all just take our times off and concentrate on ourselves :)

    x Lilli | www.LilliFerreira.com

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  7. Agree! Later in life we won't remember about all the futile things we have done. The best we can do is to take our time and enjoy.

    xoxo
    - Jennifer http://www.bohobags.com

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